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Love, Sex & Relationship Advice

This blog is for advice on sex, love and relationships. I am not an expert but this will be both personal thoughts along with professional research. Ask anything!

Posts tagged love

Dec 10 '12

Anonymous asked:

How do you know if you are in love?

There is no one true definition of love, everyone has their own. Author Jeremy Taylor states that “love is friendship set on fire.” Some dictionaries state its a strong emotions, some say its a feeling, others just an idea. Where Jeremy Taylor states its based off of friendship, some say its based off of attraction, or a sexual relationship. Love is not a define thing so it is really hard to say when you are in love. Some people believe in love at first sight others might take months even years to say those three words. All I know is that the world revolves around the idea of love. There are thousands of songs, poems, books, and movies based off of this idea. They all have different beginnings, middles and ends. But overall the theme is about two people having a strong, indescribable emotion between them. This emotion or feeling drives them as a human to do incredible things, or even horrible things. Now love can be with anyone, a significant other, a family member, friend, pet. But I am assuming you mean you’re asking about being in love with someone, a partner. Now I do not know if you are in love and there is really no gauge to tell. Personally to me I think love is something when you feel it you know. But also the mind and heart can play tricks. Psychologically speaking they have determine that a part of your brain changes when you love someone. And I think this true, just look how differently we act. Psychologist also state that a crush lasts three months so after that it means love. This could be true. But who can really put a time on love. Sure personally I don’t think you can love someone within a day or two but who am I know. I don’t usually put a lot of personal stuff in my post but Ill share with you followers that I have been in love. To me being in love means you care about the person deeply, and about their happiness. You want to be connected to them. Some want this physically, some emotionally, some mentally, spiritually and others maybe want all and more. Like I said love has no definition that I can share with you. I think you must ask yourself do you feel like you’re in love. Love brings good emotions of course such as happiness, fulfillment, peacefulness, and more. But it also can bring pain, jealously, and heartbreak. Emotions and feelings fuel the fire of love. And love to some may be good others may try to avoid it. Love is just what you think it is.

Ill leave it up to you but personally I think if you are asking if you are in love you might be.

Dec 9 '12


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Mar 14 '12

Let food spice up your love life.

There are several food, ingredients, and drinks that are not only yummy but help your love life, especially in the bedroom.

Here are some treats to try:

Food: Bananas 

Why: Contains chelating minerals and the bromeliad enzyme that can enhance the male libido.

Suggestion: A banana itself looks like a certain body part so seductively eat the banana and share it with your guy. Also try Banana Pops which are chocolate cover frozen Bananas.

Food: Chocolate

Why: Contains anandamide, the “feel-good” chemical, phenylethylamine also know as PEA, the “love chemical,” which releases dopamine in the pleasure centers of the brain and peaks during orgasm. PEA is said to help induce feelings of excitement, attraction and euphoria. 

Suggestion: Share some chocolates and maybe even use some chocolate syrup for some fore play. 

Food: Honey

Why: Contains boron, a trace mineral that helps the body use and metabolize estrogen and can also enhance testosterone levels in the blood. Also promotes sex drive and orgasm in both men and women.

Suggestion: Get some honey and put some on your lovers body and slowly lick it off. Put little drops all over, also if it is comes from a body use the squeeze bottle to draw designs and the cool liquid will feel good on their skin. 

Some others:









Small amounts of coffee

Alcohol but especially wine




Incorporate these foods or ingredients  pre (or during) sex for some extra yummy fun.

Mar 13 '12

Lady Followers!

Hey ladies I am taking a survey for my next post. I am going to post a few questions feel free to message me anytime this week with your answers. Everything will be anonymous so feel free to say whatever you like. 

1. What is one thing that you wish guys would do more?

2.How important is sex in a relationship?

3.What is one thing that a partner should not do?

4. What is a really big deal breaker?

5.What is a pet peeve that guys do?

6.What is one thing that a guy could improve on in a relationship?

7.What is the best thing to hear from a guy?

8.How often should a guy text/call?

9.What is your opinion on what a good relationship is?

10.State your opinion on what are the best qualities are in a guy.

Deadline for answers are this weekend, so I have time to create the post. Your input is highly appreciated.

Thanks xoxo

Mar 13 '12

Hey everybody!

What are some topics you want me to post about? Send me some ideas and burning questions and Ill pick a common topic for a new post. As always ask any question you would like dealing with sex, love, relationships, and anything to do with those topics!


Feb 15 '12

Anonymous asked:

Hey, so I've been seeing this guy for a little while (i've seen him three times), but im not sure what vibe im getting from his side. We were gonna catch up this week but he had to cancel cos he was sick, which is fair enough, but in general he's been taking longer to reply to texts and such. he said he wanted to make up for it next week. my question is, do you think if he's not keen will he say hes not or is he making excuses? should i leave it and not do anything until he makes the next move?

Listen if a guy wants to talk to you, he will. If he wants to see you, he will. I think that you should maybe give it another chance because maybe he is sick or busy. But if he continues to blow you off…or make more excuses, forget him. My personal belief is that a guy will be with you if he wants to, so if he likes you he will make an effort. 

Feb 15 '12

To my follower in the love triangle

I am just going to say how I feel, I hope it does not offend you in any way.

You ask me to tell you who to pick between these two boys…I say forget them both. These boys seem to have both pros and cons but really the cons seem to trump the pros. You are young still…three years from now you are going to wonder why you even liked these guys. You are going to meet lots of different guys, there will be the bad boys who break your heart, and the nice guys who you will break their hearts. Debating which guy to choose is not a good option. You should learn to make yourself happy not rely on a guy for happiness. I know this might come off mean but really you are young and should not worry about these things. I know right now it might seem like you like them a lot but a year from now even you will probably like someone new. These guys seem to not treat you very well, so why waste your tears on them. I remember being 14 completely obsessed with a guy thinking that I can not live without him in my life…I was heartbroken when he got a girlfriend. He dragged me around for months and I thought that I never love someone other then him. Now I cannot even remember why I liked him, or even our first kiss. At the time it seems as there is no one else but really there is…there are so many others out there. So I say go out and be young, meet new people, and not settle for a guy. Because if a guy really likes you he would not put you through all the stuff those guys put you through.

So be happy and my choice is pick yourself because thats the best option. 

Feb 15 '12

Anonymous asked:

I want to be more sweeter towards my girlfriend what are some things I can say that will help?

Well there are just a few modifications you could make, just to your daily routine with her. For example instead of just saying hello or hey say Hey beautiful or hey (insert charming nickname)…this will brighten her day. Randomly compliment her not only on her looks but about something she did or her personality. You can always throw in some nicknames like babe, baby, honey, etc…if she likes that type of thing. Tell her how you feel about her, and always tell her you love her ( and if you are not saying love yet say like) at random times. Text her you are thinking about her or miss her. Little things show her that you care. 

Feb 14 '12

Valentines Day & Love

Today is the day they everyone has mix feelings. We got the couples who are over the top love-y, or some act like it does not exist at all. We have the singles who are either crying in bed with a box of chocolate being anti-love or the singles out and about trying to find other singles. EIther way today is about love, whether you have it, trying to forget it, looking for it, or hating it. Some people might celebrate today with sex, either with someone they love, someone they just met, or themselves. No matter what you are doing or who you are doing it with, remember that today is a day of celebration. So if you do not have a significant other maybe show love to other people like friends, family or your dog. Because someone is always looking for a little love.

Hugs & Kisses ~

Feb 10 '12

Anonymous asked:

i have a pretty hairy stomach and my boyfriend and i are getting more intimate and stuff, so i get really self conscious when we tries to take off my shirt. would it be weird to shave my stomach?

Everyone has something they are self conscious about but usually 99% of the time their partner does not care. I read in Cosmo that most guys do not even notice if you have stubble on your legs because they are too busy thinking about having you naked underneath them. If you are really self conscious about it then you should remove the hair. Do not shave though because the hair will just grow back quicker, and you will have a stubbly stomach. You will probably have to shave it weekly or even every other day. I recommend either waxing, you will probably only have to do this monthly depending on how much hair you have. Also look at a local drugstore for other hair removing options. I would not be too worried about it I think your boyfriend won’t mind!