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Love, Sex & Relationship Advice

This blog is for advice on sex, love and relationships. I am not an expert but this will be both personal thoughts along with professional research. Ask anything!

Posts tagged personal

Dec 10 '12

Anonymous asked:

How do you know if you are in love?

There is no one true definition of love, everyone has their own. Author Jeremy Taylor states that “love is friendship set on fire.” Some dictionaries state its a strong emotions, some say its a feeling, others just an idea. Where Jeremy Taylor states its based off of friendship, some say its based off of attraction, or a sexual relationship. Love is not a define thing so it is really hard to say when you are in love. Some people believe in love at first sight others might take months even years to say those three words. All I know is that the world revolves around the idea of love. There are thousands of songs, poems, books, and movies based off of this idea. They all have different beginnings, middles and ends. But overall the theme is about two people having a strong, indescribable emotion between them. This emotion or feeling drives them as a human to do incredible things, or even horrible things. Now love can be with anyone, a significant other, a family member, friend, pet. But I am assuming you mean you’re asking about being in love with someone, a partner. Now I do not know if you are in love and there is really no gauge to tell. Personally to me I think love is something when you feel it you know. But also the mind and heart can play tricks. Psychologically speaking they have determine that a part of your brain changes when you love someone. And I think this true, just look how differently we act. Psychologist also state that a crush lasts three months so after that it means love. This could be true. But who can really put a time on love. Sure personally I don’t think you can love someone within a day or two but who am I know. I don’t usually put a lot of personal stuff in my post but Ill share with you followers that I have been in love. To me being in love means you care about the person deeply, and about their happiness. You want to be connected to them. Some want this physically, some emotionally, some mentally, spiritually and others maybe want all and more. Like I said love has no definition that I can share with you. I think you must ask yourself do you feel like you’re in love. Love brings good emotions of course such as happiness, fulfillment, peacefulness, and more. But it also can bring pain, jealously, and heartbreak. Emotions and feelings fuel the fire of love. And love to some may be good others may try to avoid it. Love is just what you think it is.

Ill leave it up to you but personally I think if you are asking if you are in love you might be.

Mar 13 '12

Lady Followers!

Hey ladies I am taking a survey for my next post. I am going to post a few questions feel free to message me anytime this week with your answers. Everything will be anonymous so feel free to say whatever you like. 

1. What is one thing that you wish guys would do more?

2.How important is sex in a relationship?

3.What is one thing that a partner should not do?

4. What is a really big deal breaker?

5.What is a pet peeve that guys do?

6.What is one thing that a guy could improve on in a relationship?

7.What is the best thing to hear from a guy?

8.How often should a guy text/call?

9.What is your opinion on what a good relationship is?

10.State your opinion on what are the best qualities are in a guy.

Deadline for answers are this weekend, so I have time to create the post. Your input is highly appreciated.

Thanks xoxo

Feb 15 '12

To my follower in the love triangle

I am just going to say how I feel, I hope it does not offend you in any way.

You ask me to tell you who to pick between these two boys…I say forget them both. These boys seem to have both pros and cons but really the cons seem to trump the pros. You are young still…three years from now you are going to wonder why you even liked these guys. You are going to meet lots of different guys, there will be the bad boys who break your heart, and the nice guys who you will break their hearts. Debating which guy to choose is not a good option. You should learn to make yourself happy not rely on a guy for happiness. I know this might come off mean but really you are young and should not worry about these things. I know right now it might seem like you like them a lot but a year from now even you will probably like someone new. These guys seem to not treat you very well, so why waste your tears on them. I remember being 14 completely obsessed with a guy thinking that I can not live without him in my life…I was heartbroken when he got a girlfriend. He dragged me around for months and I thought that I never love someone other then him. Now I cannot even remember why I liked him, or even our first kiss. At the time it seems as there is no one else but really there is…there are so many others out there. So I say go out and be young, meet new people, and not settle for a guy. Because if a guy really likes you he would not put you through all the stuff those guys put you through.

So be happy and my choice is pick yourself because thats the best option. 

Jan 23 '12

Why sex is so important in a relationship

Everyone has a different opinion about sex. Some choose to wait to marriage, others have it freely and as often as possible. There is nothing wrong with either of these…though I do believe that all sex should be safe. This post is on the importance of sex especially in a relationship. 

According to WebMD sex is a way to relieve stress, boost your immune system, burn calories, improves heart health, boost your self-esteem, reduce pain, reduce the risk of prostate cancer, strengthen pelvic muscles, improve your sleep, and improve intimacy. I would really like to talk about the last one. Intimacy is very important when it comes to a relationship. It is a way to bond the couple and keep the passion alive. According to WebMD “Having sex and orgasms increases levels of the hormone oxytocin, the so-called love hormone, which helps us bond and build trust.” This is really important for a relationship to be functional. 

I believe that sex is a way to communicate with your partner, gain trust, and show your loyalty to one another. These are all very important factors in a relationship.

Feel free to ask questions.


Jan 23 '12

First Entry

Hello everyone!

I decided to start an advice/informative blog about love, sex, break ups, relationship and everything in between. I will post daily current information from professionals about various topics, along with personal opinions. Feel free to ask anything you like, and do not be shy!

Thank you.