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Love, Sex & Relationship Advice

This blog is for advice on sex, love and relationships. I am not an expert but this will be both personal thoughts along with professional research. Ask anything!

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Dec 10 '12

Anonymous asked:

How do you know if you are in love?

There is no one true definition of love, everyone has their own. Author Jeremy Taylor states that “love is friendship set on fire.” Some dictionaries state its a strong emotions, some say its a feeling, others just an idea. Where Jeremy Taylor states its based off of friendship, some say its based off of attraction, or a sexual relationship. Love is not a define thing so it is really hard to say when you are in love. Some people believe in love at first sight others might take months even years to say those three words. All I know is that the world revolves around the idea of love. There are thousands of songs, poems, books, and movies based off of this idea. They all have different beginnings, middles and ends. But overall the theme is about two people having a strong, indescribable emotion between them. This emotion or feeling drives them as a human to do incredible things, or even horrible things. Now love can be with anyone, a significant other, a family member, friend, pet. But I am assuming you mean you’re asking about being in love with someone, a partner. Now I do not know if you are in love and there is really no gauge to tell. Personally to me I think love is something when you feel it you know. But also the mind and heart can play tricks. Psychologically speaking they have determine that a part of your brain changes when you love someone. And I think this true, just look how differently we act. Psychologist also state that a crush lasts three months so after that it means love. This could be true. But who can really put a time on love. Sure personally I don’t think you can love someone within a day or two but who am I know. I don’t usually put a lot of personal stuff in my post but Ill share with you followers that I have been in love. To me being in love means you care about the person deeply, and about their happiness. You want to be connected to them. Some want this physically, some emotionally, some mentally, spiritually and others maybe want all and more. Like I said love has no definition that I can share with you. I think you must ask yourself do you feel like you’re in love. Love brings good emotions of course such as happiness, fulfillment, peacefulness, and more. But it also can bring pain, jealously, and heartbreak. Emotions and feelings fuel the fire of love. And love to some may be good others may try to avoid it. Love is just what you think it is.

Ill leave it up to you but personally I think if you are asking if you are in love you might be.

Mar 13 '12

Hey everybody!

What are some topics you want me to post about? Send me some ideas and burning questions and Ill pick a common topic for a new post. As always ask any question you would like dealing with sex, love, relationships, and anything to do with those topics!

XOXO. 

Feb 14 '12

Valentines Day & Love

Today is the day they everyone has mix feelings. We got the couples who are over the top love-y, or some act like it does not exist at all. We have the singles who are either crying in bed with a box of chocolate being anti-love or the singles out and about trying to find other singles. EIther way today is about love, whether you have it, trying to forget it, looking for it, or hating it. Some people might celebrate today with sex, either with someone they love, someone they just met, or themselves. No matter what you are doing or who you are doing it with, remember that today is a day of celebration. So if you do not have a significant other maybe show love to other people like friends, family or your dog. Because someone is always looking for a little love.

Hugs & Kisses ~

Jan 27 '12

Pleasing your girl

I recently got a few questions on how to please their woman in the bedroom, especially when it comes to oral. While giving your girl oral there are a few techniques but just like anything else it also depends on the person and what they like. First off you need to have fore play before the fore play. This means you should excite your woman first before heading straight down town. Tease her, kiss her, play with her nipples etc just to get her a little aroused. When going down on a woman be slow at first, no one wants you to go tongue twister right away. It is all about the build up. Licking, gentle sucking, and kissing on the labia (vagina ‘lips’), and clitoris is very pleasurable for a woman. Explore her vagina to see what she likes. I read an analogy that said treat your woman’s vagina like it is an ice cream cone, with three scoops of your favorite flavor. This means take your time and enjoy her. Avoid lots of biting this could cause pain if done wrong. Here is a tip from AskMen.com, “With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by enveloping it with your mouth momentarily and releasing it. Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultaneously flick your tongue over and around it. You can perform this oral technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes.” Ask your girl what she likes, communication is important because who knows better than her? Woman also give tips without even talking. Watch their body language. Here are some common ones:

If she grabs your head and pushes downs that usually indicates she wants more of your mouth on her. She wants more pressure.

If she shifts in one direction she is trying to put more pressure on that part of her vagina or clit so generate more in that direction. 

If she pulls up and away a bit that means you are putting too much pressure on her. Try gently licking the tip of her clit to tease her.

Listen to her moans they indicate what she likes and dislike.

Last Few Tips:

Do not always just lick the clitoris, explore everywhere. Use your tongue to slide in and out of her.

Lick the area around the clitoris this is a very sensitive area, and sometimes direct contact on the clitoris is too much pressure. 

Use your hands; spread her open, finger her, rub her etc.

Stick through till she finishes. 

Jan 23 '12

Why sex is so important in a relationship

Everyone has a different opinion about sex. Some choose to wait to marriage, others have it freely and as often as possible. There is nothing wrong with either of these…though I do believe that all sex should be safe. This post is on the importance of sex especially in a relationship. 

According to WebMD sex is a way to relieve stress, boost your immune system, burn calories, improves heart health, boost your self-esteem, reduce pain, reduce the risk of prostate cancer, strengthen pelvic muscles, improve your sleep, and improve intimacy. I would really like to talk about the last one. Intimacy is very important when it comes to a relationship. It is a way to bond the couple and keep the passion alive. According to WebMD “Having sex and orgasms increases levels of the hormone oxytocin, the so-called love hormone, which helps us bond and build trust.” This is really important for a relationship to be functional. 

I believe that sex is a way to communicate with your partner, gain trust, and show your loyalty to one another. These are all very important factors in a relationship.

Feel free to ask questions.

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